We are on Different Pages

I've explained myself in every way imaginable and made sure to research the facts, yet they simply refuse to see the point and continue to argue for their way. I could be upset and continue fighting for my way or I could take a moment to view it from their perspective. Where are their thoughts coming from? What is influencing them to have no room for compromise? Could we possibly be looking at the same things but seeing completely different issues?

When I feel irritated by another person’s viewpoint, I know that I should pause and consider the other person instead of allowing my annoyance to start bubbling against them. I know that I don’t have to be correct to get along. If I'm not feeling understood, I accept it as a reflection of something I am not understanding. Instead of pushing my viewpoint and striving to be heard, I have the opportunity to admit that we're not on the same page, look into what we both are working on and let go of the disagreement to work together more easily. For whatever is against my expectation is an opportunity to learn in a new light.